Last class we were given a character out of beloved and were told to look at three different themes i guess you can say and see how the character acted in those themes. My group had Denver and i noticed we had a recurring theme of Denver always did something because she felt lonely. She never wanted to be alone. She hated being alone. Thats why she allowed beloved to choke her mother and not say anything because she didn't want her to kick beloved out because she would then be alone again or so she thought. This made me think how many women, black women at that feel alone all the time and allow thins to keep going that they know are wrong because they don't want to be alone? According to google black men are the most common to cheat and black women have a high chance in being in an abusive relationship. Is this because they are scared to be alone so they allow themselves to be hurt. why is it so common for black women? i think its because a lot of black women have a little Denver in them. They allow themselves to go through things that isn't right because they don't want to be alone. They are trying to fill avoid that can only truly be filled by love.